How to Teach Someone About Islam: A Muslim Mom’s Guide

So, someone’s curious about Islam, and you’re their go-to guide? No pressure, right? 😅 Whether it’s a new Muslim, a non-Muslim friend, or even your own kids, the key is to keep it simple, engaging, and—dare I say—fun! Teaching Islam isn’t about dumping an encyclopedia of rules and history onto someone. It’s about sparking curiosity, answering questions with warmth, and showing them the beauty of faith through everyday life.

But where do you even start? What if they ask deep, philosophical questions? Or—brace yourself—what if they think halal just means “no bacon” and that’s the whole religion? Should you give them a PowerPoint presentation? A ten-hour lecture? Nope! Just breathe, mama—I’ve got you!

In this guide, we’ll break it down step by step, making sure you teach with confidence, kindness, and maybe even a little humor. After all, learning about Islam should feel like a warm invitation, not an intimidating list of rules. Ready? Let’s go! 💡

1. Start With the Shahadah: The Heart of Islam

Before diving into prayer times, fasting rules, or the difference between Zakat and Sadaqah, start with the Shahadah—the declaration of faith. Everything in Islam begins here.

👉 “La ilaha illa Allah, Muhammadur Rasulullah”
(There is no god but Allah, and Muhammad is His messenger).

This powerful statement is more than just words—it’s a life-changing belief. It means recognizing Tawheed (the oneness of Allah) and understanding that worship is for Him alone. When someone embraces this, they’re not just joining a religion; they’re choosing peace, purpose, and submission to their Creator.

📖 Qur’an Insight:
“Indeed, there has come to you from Allah a light and a clear Book.” (Al-Ma’idah 5:15)

📝 Pro Tip: Keep it relatable! Ask them, “Would you rather have one boss at work or ten?” Managing multiple bosses would be stressful, right? But with one boss, there’s clarity and order. Similarly, believing in one Creator brings peace, focus, and direction.

When teaching, keep it gentle and encouraging. The Shahadah is a new beginning, and your role is to make that start beautiful and welcoming. 🌸✨

2. The Qur’an: The Ultimate Guide 💡

Next, introduce them to the Qur’an—the direct word of Allah. Encourage them to start with small chapters like Surah Al-Fatiha and Surah Al-Ikhlas. These contain powerful messages about faith and worship.

📖 Qur’an Insight:
“Indeed, We have sent down to you the Book as clarification for all things.” (An-Nahl 16:89)

Teaching Tip: Play a beautiful recitation (Qari Mishary or Abdul Basit are great choices!). Let them feel the peace in its rhythm and melody.

💡 Did You Know? Non-Muslims who listen to the Qur’an often describe it as “calming” or “like a spiritual experience.” Test it out!

3. Meet Prophet Muhammad ﷺ: The Perfect Role Model

Now, introduce the life of the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ—his kindness, honesty, and patience. Many people are shocked to learn he was called “Al-Ameen” (The Trustworthy) even before prophethood.

📖 Hadith Insight:
“The best among you are those who have the best manners and character.” (Sahih Bukhari)

Relatable Example:
The Prophet ﷺ was like the best boss, the best husband, the best leader, and the best dad—all in one! Imagine if our world leaders followed his example today. 🌿

Recommended Reads:

• The Sealed Nectar (A deep dive into his biography).
• Riyad-us-Saliheen (A collection of beautiful hadiths).

4. The Five Pillars: Islam’s To-Do List

Islam is simple, structured, and clear. Introduce the five pillars—they are like the building blocks of faith:

1. Shahadah – Faith in one God and His Messenger.
2. Salah – The five daily prayers (think of them as five spiritual “coffee breaks” ☕).
3. Zakat – Giving charity (purifying wealth while helping others).
4. Sawm – Fasting in Ramadan (a detox for the soul and body).
5. Hajj – Pilgrimage to Makkah (a once-in-a-lifetime spiritual journey).

📖 Qur’an Insight:
“And establish prayer and give zakah, and bow with those who bow [in worship].” (Al-Baqarah 2:43)

Avoid Overcomplicating It!

• Don’t get stuck on minor details.
• Focus on the why before the how.
• Let them ask questions at their own pace.

5. What’s Haram & What’s Not?

Some people think Islam is just a long list of “don’ts”, but Islam is mostly permissive! Almost everything is halal except a few clear things, like:

No alcohol, pork, riba (interest), or harming others.

📖 Hadith Insight:
“What is lawful is clear, and what is unlawful is clear…” (Sahih Bukhari)

Explain it Simply:
Islam isn’t about restricting life; it’s about protecting blessings. Think of it like a game with fair rules—they’re there to help, not to control.

6. Islam Is About Good Character

One of the best ways to teach Islam is to live Islam. Show them through your kindness, patience, and honesty.

📖 Hadith Insight:
“Nothing is heavier on the believer’s scale on the Day of Judgment than good character.” (Sunan Abu Dawood)

Practical Steps:

• Be kind and patient in your approach.
• Share personal experiences of how Islam changed your life.
• Use stories instead of lectures.

🔑 Golden Rule: Actions speak louder than words. If you’re rude, judgmental, or impatient, they won’t remember your words—just your attitude. 😬

7. Address Their Questions Without Fear

Expect curious and sometimes awkward questions like:

1. “Why do Muslims pray in Arabic?”
2. “Why do women wear hijab?”
3. “Why can’t Muslims eat bacon?”

Best Response: Answer with wisdom, warmth, and a smile. 😃
If you don’t know, say:
“That’s a great question! Let’s find out together!”

🔗 Helpful Resource:
Check out IslamQA for well-researched answers.

8. Introduce Them to a Muslim Community

Islam is not just knowledge—it’s belonging. Encourage them to visit a local Islamic center, attend a Jumu’ah prayer, or join an online Muslim community.

Find a Local Masjid: Many Islamic centers offer classes for new Muslims.

🕊️ Reminder: Community = Support.

Conclusion: Just Keep It Simple & Kind

Teaching Islam is not about debating or proving a point. It’s about guiding with love, patience, and wisdom. 🌸

💡 Final Tips:
1. Start with the basics.
2. Let them ask questions freely.
3. Be a living example of Islam’s beauty.

Now, go forth and teach! May Allah bless your efforts and reward you abundantly. 🌟💖

Need More Guidance?
Check out this helpful article on Islam for more insights.

Over to You!
Have you ever taught someone about Islam? What was your experience? Share in the comments! 💬