7 Steps to Keep Your Faith in Hard Times

Feeling overwhelmed, Mama? Life as a Muslim mom can feel like an endless to-do list, right? From managing tantrums to juggling spirituality, it’s no wonder keeping your faith steady can feel like a Herculean task. But here’s the thing: you’ve got this! Let’s explore 7 steps to keep your faith in hard times and remind ourselves that Allah never burdens us beyond what we can bear. Ready? Let’s dive in! 

1. Be Thankful to Allah 🌟

Gratitude is your secret weapon. When chaos hits, pause and thank Allah for what you do have. Remember the Prophet ﷺ said, “Should I not be a thankful slave?” (Bukhari & Muslim). Grateful hearts find joy, even in trials.

Why not start a gratitude journal? Jot down three blessings daily. It could be as simple as a quiet cup of tea or a kid-free bathroom break (we know how rare that is!). (I shall desist from trying to promote my self-care planner here. Let’s stay focused, alright?)

2. Seek Refuge with Allah

When things feel overwhelming, don’t hold it all in. Turn to Allah and ask for His help. So, say it with me: “Hasbunallahu wa ni’mal wakeel” (Allah is sufficient for us, and He is the best disposer of affairs).

Let this dua be your shield when stress comes knocking.

3. Don’t Let Shaytan Win

Ever feel like your inner voice says, “You’re failing”? That’s Shaytan talking! Push back by staying consistent in your prayers and dhikr. Even a quick “SubhanAllah, Alhamdulillah, Allahu Akbar” while folding laundry can shift your mindset.

Remember, small acts of worship count big in Allah’s eyes.

4. Seek Allah’s Help & Don’t Feel Helpless

Hard times don’t mean Allah has abandoned you. Quite the opposite! Difficulties are opportunities for growth. So, roll up your sleeves, make dua, and trust that ever feeble is the plot of Shaytan (Qur’an 4:76).

Use this moment to reframe your mindset. Struggles aren’t roadblocks—they’re stepping stones.

5. Surround Yourself with Good Vibes

Ladies, you need a supportive tribe! Good friends make the journey easier. Find sisters who inspire you to stay steadfast in worship. If you don’t have such friends nearby, check out online communities for Muslim moms. (You’re not alone; there’s a whole ummah cheering for you!)

6. Build a Routine for Worship

Let’s be honest—moms thrive on routines, and so does your faith! Set a realistic schedule for prayers, Quran recitation, and dhikr. Can’t do it all? Start small. Even 5 minutes a day can snowball into a habit that sticks.

Quick Tip: Pair worship with daily tasks. Recite dhikr while cooking or listen to Quran while driving.

7. Pray, Repent, and Keep Going 🌿

Missed prayers or felt distant from Allah? Don’t let guilt paralyze you. Turn to Allah with sincere repentance. As the Prophet ﷺ said, “The most beloved deeds to Allah are those that are consistent, even if they are few” (Bukhari).

Remember, Allah’s mercy is limitless. Every step back to Him counts, no matter how small.

Final Thoughts

Hard times are part of the test, but they’re also a chance to grow closer to Allah. By following these 7 steps to keep your faith in hard times, you’ll build resilience and deepen your connection to your Creator.

What step will you try first? Share your thoughts in the comments below. And don’t forget to check out this 12-step parenting plan for more inspiration, or explore this guide on remaining steadfast.

May Allah keep us all firm in our faith, rain or shine! 🌧✨ (Rain is sent as a mercy even if we don’t see it.)