35 Spiritual Goals Every Muslim Mom Should Strive For ✨
Have you ever wondered how you can juggle parenting, housework, and strengthening your connection with Allah all at once? Between cooking the family biryani and making sure the kids haven’t turned the living room into a jungle gym, life can get overwhelming. But what if you could simplify it all and focus on your spiritual growth? Let’s talk about 35 spiritual goals that can help you nurture your soul while managing your busy life. Ready to dive in?
Why Set Spiritual Goals? 🌟
Setting goals helps you focus on what truly matters. Allah says in the Qur’an: “And I (Allah) created not the jinn and mankind except that they should worship Me (Alone)” [51:56]. So, why not make every effort to fulfill our purpose beautifully?
As moms, we often put everyone else first, but nurturing your faith is a gift for yourself and your family. Imagine the barakah (blessings) when your children learn to pray just by watching you. So, let’s get started on these uplifting goals!
35 Spiritual Goals
1. Prioritize Salah on Time 🕒
Consistency is key, right? Make a schedule around prayer times and stick to it. Even if your toddler is doing cartwheels during dhuhr, you’re showing them what’s important.2. Recite Qur’an Daily 🕊
You don’t need to read an entire juz every day. Start small. A single ayah a day can transform your heart over time. “The best deeds are those done consistently, even if they are few” (Hadith).
3. Morning & Evening Dhikr
Add a few moments of remembrance to your daily routine. Repeat Subhanallah, Alhamdulillaah, etc multiple times while folding laundry or as you sip tea. Easy, right?
4. Make Du’a a Habit
Whether it’s asking for guidance or that the kids don’t spill juice on the couch (again), keep talking to Allah. It’s therapeutic!
5. Teach Kids About Faith
Turn bedtime stories into lessons about the Prophets. Not only will they learn, but you’ll reinforce your own knowledge too.
6. Fast on Mondays and Thursdays
Bring in the Sunnah of fasting to detox your soul and feel spiritually rejuvenated.
7. Give Regular Sadaqah 💖
Even a smile is charity! Drop a coin in a donation box or help a neighbor in need.
8. Strengthen Tawakkul (Trust in Allah) ✨
In moments of stress, remind yourself that Allah is the best of planners.9. Memorize Short Surahs 🕊
Start with Surah Al-Fil or Al-Ikhlas. It’s an achievement worth celebrating!
10. Teach Your Children Daily Du’as 🍂
Make them recite du’as for eating, sleeping, or leaving the house.
11. Perform Tahajjud Weekly 🌙
Wake up before Fajr for special prayers. Even 2 rak’ahs can change your life.12. Read Tafsir of the Qur’an 🌟
Understand the meanings behind the ayahs to deepen your connection with the Qur’an.
13. Avoid Gossip and Idle Talk
Be mindful of your speech. Words have power.14. Control Your Anger
Take a deep breath and recite A’oodhu Billahi min ash-Shaytan ir-Rajeem when irritated.
15. Focus on Gratitude
Write down three things you’re thankful for every day.
16. Perform Sunnah Prayers 💡
Incorporate sunnah prayers before and after the obligatory ones.17. Reflect on Death and the Afterlife
Remembering death keeps us humble and focused on the Hereafter.
18. Build Strong Family Bonds
Encourage your family to join you in prayers and acts of worship.19. Visit the Sick
A simple act of kindness that brings immense rewards.
20. Share Islamic Knowledge
Teach others what you know. It’s an ongoing charity.21. Be a Role Model for Your Kids 🌱
Your actions speak louder than words.
22. Read Seerah of the Prophet (S)
Discover inspiring lessons from the life of Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).
23. Strengthen Community Ties
Join a halaqah or help organize local Islamic events.
24. Seek Knowledge Actively 💡
Dedicate time to learn something new about Islam.25. Practice Minimalism
Declutter your home and heart to focus on what truly matters.
26. Plan for Hajj and Umrah
If you’ve not gone yet, make it a goal to fulfill this pillar (Hajj). If you’ve completed Hajj, try to go again, or go for Umrah.
27. Observe the Sunnah of Eating
Say Bismillah before meals and eat with your right hand.
28. Read Islamic Books 📖
Books like “Don’t Be Sad” can uplift and motivate you.29. Stay Consistent After Ramadan 🌟
Carry over the spiritual momentum to the rest of the year. (More on this below.)
30. Keep Ties With Relatives 🌙
Make a list of your relatives (parents, siblings, children, grandparents, uncles, aunts & cousins) and plan how to stay connected without overwhelming yourself. Think WhatsApp groups, phone calls on Eids, etc. Whatever is easiest for you.
31. Perform Witr Before Sleeping 🌙
Don’t miss this special prayer before bed. If you’re going to wake up for Tahajjud, delay Witr until then.
32. Engage in Dhikr During Chores ✨
Remember Allah as you clean or cook—it’s a win-win.33. Avoid Procrastination
Act promptly on good intentions. If it takes less than 2 minutes, do it immediately. If it takes longer, write it down and execute! (Don’t forget, you’re a warrior!)
34. Practice Sabr (Patience) 🍂
Keep calm and trust Allah during trials.35. Make Dua for the Ummah
Pray for the well-being of Muslims worldwide.
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Ramadan Habits Year-Round 🌟
Don’t wait until Ramadan. And, don’t leave your Ramadan vibes behind. Carry those good deeds into the rest of the year. “The Lord of Ramadan is the Lord of all months” (Islam QA). Keep the momentum going.
Small Changes, Big Rewards ✨
Let’s face it—no one’s perfect. But with consistent effort, even the smallest steps count. Allah sees your struggles and intentions. So, embrace the journey, laugh at the chaos, and keep striving.
What’s your top spiritual goal for this week? Let’s share and inspire each other in the comments below!
